"You get what you tolerate." This was something that Steven said in one of his talks a long time back. I think of this often. Apparently this traces back to a Reader's Digest article in the 70s but it will always be something of Steven that sticks with me

Anthony, Manheim UI (presently Interstate)

Steven was always tinkering with a new idea. This time it was a plant-based food service that he had been working really hard on. At the time my wife was trying to transition to become a vegan and she wanted to give the food service a shot. I signed her signed up for trial meals but the first time around he had some issue with the quality of the food. It had to be perfect! He then gave it another shot (after some unknown iterations) and continued to give those interested trial options... I remember talking to him about the effort and logistics of such an endeavor and even though in the end it didn't work out, I admired his commitment to trying such a new and different thing than what his day-to-day was.

This was on the footer of one of the "Joyfull Foods" emails I got:

"P.S. ANY meal you don't like is free, and if you don't sign up for a second week I'm refunding your entire first week. That's just how I roll."

Rodrigo Martinez (Roddy)

February

Getting on a video call was Steven was always so fun. He had all this professional setup going on with his mic, and headphones. Always had a smile, super chill - always asking how can I help.

In August when I was in town and saw him and was telling him that I am leaving COX in December to do something on my own, he said thats awesome, let me know if I can help with anything. He never not offered to help.

I am going miss him.

Mansi Demla

August

I asked Steven a random question about machine learning. Within the hour he'd sent me his own deep learning repos, told me which doors not to knock on, and offered to introduce me to the team that could actually put a model in front of users. We barely knew each other yet. That was just how he was.

Jeff Cameron, Manheim

September

I invited him to my daughter's birthday party because I needed more dad friends. He said he'd ask his four-year-old if he wanted to come. The answer was yes, and a few hours later he asked if his eight-year-old could come too.

Jeff Cameron, Prism

January

I'd been stuck on a GitHub Actions problem for weeks and told him it was making me feel stupid. At 9pm he sent me a wall of messages about imposter syndrome and how he'd freed himself from it. Then he admitted he had no idea how to fix my problem either. He'd just said he'd figure it out.

Jeff Cameron, Interstate

November

Steven was one of the first few people that I met when I started at Cox.

He was always so kind and I enjoyed the way he viewed the world and the work we were doing. In my first few months when I was still trying to figure things out he was always happy to answer questions and he reminded me that maybe I did know more than I thought.

He consistently encouraged myself and other early career folks to explore and ask questions and always made himself available often offering a helping hand.

Vivian Milender

June

I showed him my generative UI experiment. He told me exactly which parts were good design and which parts were a waste of time, and then told me to share it. Nobody else pushed me to put it in front of people.

Jeff Cameron, Runway

July

He was the first person to join my applied AI channel. Then he cunningly dropped a mention of my generative UI demo, and a day later I had an office hours slot to show it to a lot of people. That demo led to pretty much everything I've done since. When I told him what he'd started, he said: "all i did was point them at what you'd already done ;)"

Jeff Cameron, Runway

August

Our last real conversation. He'd been heads down for months and asked what in AI was worth paying attention to, adding "i think you know me well enough to understand what I think qualifies." I did. I was looking forward to showing him what came next.

Jeff Cameron, Runway

I didn't know Steven very well, but his colorful glasses always made me smile when I'd see his profile pic. He seemed crazy bright/smart, and someone who wasn't afraid to speak his truth even if it flew in the face of what everyone else accepted as "normal".

I also really liked his AI comment in the AI channel Jeff posted below. I had read that a while back, and got a chuckle.

I'm deeply saddened I didn't know him better than this, because it sounds like I missed out on a great friendship.

Hudson Akridge, Runway